This was just sent to me from a friend in a cancer support group. Please read and take heart to whats being said!
For Cancer Patients/Survivors:
Dont forget to laugh! Watch funny movies, attend Comedy Shows, or find laughter with family and friends; what ever makes you laugh- make sure you find it on regular bases.
Make Time for yourself. Chances are you have a lot more going on in your life with the addition of a cancer diagnose. Make sure you take the time to process many of the new feeling and thoughts your experiencing.
Ask, Ask and Ask some more. Address all of your concerns and questions with your health care team. Remember to write your questions down as you think of them, you may not think of them during your visit.
Find time outside of your cancer. If you dont already have a hobby, now is the time to find one. You too need time away from you thoughts of the Big C.
Talking with Family and Friends. Talking with friends or family members can help both of you feel better. Many people may seem awkward in their lack of understanding of cancer. Its up to you to help them understand and often times to make the first move. Be open with your diagnose, treatments, and feelings. Remember that everyone will respond differently; some may seem angry, others may appear a little to up beat, and there will be those that wish not to discuss your cancer any further. Chances are they all mean well, just unsure in the proper reaction or afraid they will say some thing they shouldnt.
Asking For Help. Sometimes the only assistance we may require from an individual, is seeing their caring shine through as a lighthouse on a foggy evening, but it is up us to let them now that. Whatever the level of help you need at the moment; dont be afraid to ask! Most people are waiting to know how they can help you.
Finding the support you need! Its often easier to share thoughts and feelings with individual outside of your personal circle; support groups are an excellent resource to meet those who have faced similar experiences. The Nation Cancer Institute even suggests that attending support groups can also help with your physical recovery from cancer.
For Cancer Patients/Survivors:
Dont forget to laugh! Watch funny movies, attend Comedy Shows, or find laughter with family and friends; what ever makes you laugh- make sure you find it on regular bases.
Make Time for yourself. Chances are you have a lot more going on in your life with the addition of a cancer diagnose. Make sure you take the time to process many of the new feeling and thoughts your experiencing.
Ask, Ask and Ask some more. Address all of your concerns and questions with your health care team. Remember to write your questions down as you think of them, you may not think of them during your visit.
Find time outside of your cancer. If you dont already have a hobby, now is the time to find one. You too need time away from you thoughts of the Big C.
Talking with Family and Friends. Talking with friends or family members can help both of you feel better. Many people may seem awkward in their lack of understanding of cancer. Its up to you to help them understand and often times to make the first move. Be open with your diagnose, treatments, and feelings. Remember that everyone will respond differently; some may seem angry, others may appear a little to up beat, and there will be those that wish not to discuss your cancer any further. Chances are they all mean well, just unsure in the proper reaction or afraid they will say some thing they shouldnt.
Asking For Help. Sometimes the only assistance we may require from an individual, is seeing their caring shine through as a lighthouse on a foggy evening, but it is up us to let them now that. Whatever the level of help you need at the moment; dont be afraid to ask! Most people are waiting to know how they can help you.
Finding the support you need! Its often easier to share thoughts and feelings with individual outside of your personal circle; support groups are an excellent resource to meet those who have faced similar experiences. The Nation Cancer Institute even suggests that attending support groups can also help with your physical recovery from cancer.
HUGS< Susan
12/6/05 TAH due to Cervical Cancer 1A1, am now Cancer Free!
12/6/05 TAH due to Cervical Cancer 1A1, am now Cancer Free!
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