Men,
This is especialy for you guys.
I have a wonderful man in my life but he had no clue as to what I was going through nor how to help. So, I have researched and thought about this alot and decided to list a few good things, you guys could do to help out.
1.) Understand that your lady has had a MAJOR surgery. No she may not have lost an arm or leg but she still needs her time to heal. If she cant heal properly then she may have to return to the hospital, leaving you haveing to help MORE!
2.) It wont kill you to
or take out the trash. If you just cant seem to do it everyday, then try every other day.
3.) Please vaccum the house at least once a week. That will take a wooping 15-30 minutes, ouch that might hurt.
4.) IF you have little kids, please keep them OFF of mom! If they accidently kick her, it may cause more damage. Oh and please see that hey get feed!
5.) Your lady is absolutely not aloud to cook. She can not be standing there, bending to grab pots/pans, ect. I know some where in that body, there is a man that can cook a little something. If not the grocery store has those wonderful microwave dishes.
6.) NO NO NO letting your lady do
. You can do it. If you need help, I am sure she will explain how to work the washer/dryer.
The point is guys, it is your turn to show your lady how much she means to you. Its time to help as she has helped you. Let her have her
. she only has one time to heal correctly, give her this chance. After all we dont need her back in the hospital. That would mean you would have to take control longer than 4-6 weeks. Can you imagine 12 weeks worth of house work bcuz you wouldnt let her heal correctly the 1st time? 
This is especialy for you guys.
I have a wonderful man in my life but he had no clue as to what I was going through nor how to help. So, I have researched and thought about this alot and decided to list a few good things, you guys could do to help out.
1.) Understand that your lady has had a MAJOR surgery. No she may not have lost an arm or leg but she still needs her time to heal. If she cant heal properly then she may have to return to the hospital, leaving you haveing to help MORE!
2.) It wont kill you to
or take out the trash. If you just cant seem to do it everyday, then try every other day.3.) Please vaccum the house at least once a week. That will take a wooping 15-30 minutes, ouch that might hurt.
4.) IF you have little kids, please keep them OFF of mom! If they accidently kick her, it may cause more damage. Oh and please see that hey get feed!
5.) Your lady is absolutely not aloud to cook. She can not be standing there, bending to grab pots/pans, ect. I know some where in that body, there is a man that can cook a little something. If not the grocery store has those wonderful microwave dishes.
6.) NO NO NO letting your lady do
. You can do it. If you need help, I am sure she will explain how to work the washer/dryer.The point is guys, it is your turn to show your lady how much she means to you. Its time to help as she has helped you. Let her have her
. she only has one time to heal correctly, give her this chance. After all we dont need her back in the hospital. That would mean you would have to take control longer than 4-6 weeks. Can you imagine 12 weeks worth of house work bcuz you wouldnt let her heal correctly the 1st time? HUGS< Susan
12/6/05 TAH due to Cervical Cancer 1A1, am now Cancer Free!
12/6/05 TAH due to Cervical Cancer 1A1, am now Cancer Free!
